đ Back to School Check-In (and a little hello from me)
- Rebekah Advocate
- Jan 6
- 2 min read
Hello lovely parents and carers,
As the children head back to school this week, I wanted to check in with you. January can feel heavy â routines restarting, worries resurfacing, and that familiar feeling of âhere we go againâ when youâre supporting a child with SEND.
Please know this: youâre not alone, and youâre not behind.
đ Whatâs happening with SEND right now? (In plain English)
You may have heard talk about a SEND White Paper or âbig changes comingâ. Hereâs what you actually need to know â without the jargon:
The government has not published the SEND White Paper yet.
Itâs now expected early this year (2026).
Nothing has changed yet in the law around EHCPs.
Your childâs current rights still stand.
There has been a lot in the media about:
EHCPs possibly being limited in the future
Schools being asked to do more without plans
SEND costs being âtoo highâ
At the moment, these are ideas being talked about, not decisions. I know headlines can feel frightening â especially if youâve fought hard for support â but please donât panic based on press stories alone.
đ« What this means for your child right now
âïž EHCPs are still legally bindingâïž Provision must still be deliveredâïž Reviews, reassessments and tribunals continue as normalâïž Schools and local authorities must still follow the law
If anything, this is a time to:
Make sure plans are clear, specific and strong
Keep records
Ask questions
Get support early rather than waiting until crisis point
đïž My podcast starts this week
Iâm really excited (and a little nervous!) to share that my podcast launches this week.
Itâs for parents like you â navigating EHCPs, school stress, exclusions, burnout, and the emotional toll of holding everything together.
Iâll be talking about:
SEND law in real-life language
What to do when schools say âwe canâtâ
Tribunal, mediation and reviews â without fear
Looking after you while you advocate for your child
Short, honest episodes you can listen to while walking, driving, or having five minutes of quiet.
Iâll share the link very soon đ
đ± A gentle reminder
You do not need to:
Know everything
Fight every battle today
Carry this on your own
One step at a time is enough.
If you need support â whether thatâs understanding paperwork, planning next steps, or just having someone explain things calmly â my advocacy and consultations are still available.
Thank you for being here.Thank you for trusting me.And most of all â thank you for showing up for your children every single day.
With warmth,Rebekah
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